byline
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Harry, how wonderful that you got to see them three times, and so experienced three different versions of their live show. I saw them only once: Terre Haute on Oct. 28th, 1972. I was in the seventh grade. Now & Then hadn't been released yet, but they performed the oldies medley, which was an unexpected treat. Cubby O'Brien had joined the band by that time, so he and Karen drummed together, and then he drummed solo whenever Karen moved to the front of the stage.
We had lived in Terre Haute for three years, then moved to a small town about an hour's drive away. This concert was supposed to be a surprise birthday present for me, but of course I kept up with all the Carpenters' news and knew they were going to be performing there. As soon as I found out about the concert, I asked my mother if we could go, and she told a big, fat lie (which I fell for completely): "No, we can't afford it." Needless to say, I was completely crestfallen.
And yet I still didn't catch on when we went out to eat in Terre Haute the day of the concert. As I recall, my father had to be in Terre Haute to clear some hurdle with his dissertation at Indiana State University, where he'd completed his master's degree and only needed to finish his dissertation to complete his doctorate. I still hoped that my parents would miraculously change their minds and take my older sister and me to the concert. I probably thought that if I looked wistful enough, they'd give in. I remember thinking, "I can't believe we're in the same city, but we can't go to the concert!"
Then Dad drove us to the ISU campus, and I didn't even catch on until we drove past the sign announcing that they were performing that night. (Of course, I was trying to figure out how I could escape from the car and sneak in!) Then Dad parked the car in the lot nearby, and I think I looked around and asked, "Are we getting out?" Then we all got out and started walking toward the auditorium. That's when it finally dawned on me that they'd all kept this big secret from me, and I went from being totally depressed to completely over the moon. That was probably my best birthday present ever!
We had lived in Terre Haute for three years, then moved to a small town about an hour's drive away. This concert was supposed to be a surprise birthday present for me, but of course I kept up with all the Carpenters' news and knew they were going to be performing there. As soon as I found out about the concert, I asked my mother if we could go, and she told a big, fat lie (which I fell for completely): "No, we can't afford it." Needless to say, I was completely crestfallen.
And yet I still didn't catch on when we went out to eat in Terre Haute the day of the concert. As I recall, my father had to be in Terre Haute to clear some hurdle with his dissertation at Indiana State University, where he'd completed his master's degree and only needed to finish his dissertation to complete his doctorate. I still hoped that my parents would miraculously change their minds and take my older sister and me to the concert. I probably thought that if I looked wistful enough, they'd give in. I remember thinking, "I can't believe we're in the same city, but we can't go to the concert!"
Then Dad drove us to the ISU campus, and I didn't even catch on until we drove past the sign announcing that they were performing that night. (Of course, I was trying to figure out how I could escape from the car and sneak in!) Then Dad parked the car in the lot nearby, and I think I looked around and asked, "Are we getting out?" Then we all got out and started walking toward the auditorium. That's when it finally dawned on me that they'd all kept this big secret from me, and I went from being totally depressed to completely over the moon. That was probably my best birthday present ever!