here is a question that i've been wnting to ask for a while,so here goes! when i was in high school(circa 1983)a friend of mine sold me the WARM album--for only three dollars!!!his family had it,but they got bored with it,so he decided to let me have it.one of my favorite tunes on the album(besides the sea is my soil) is without her. it starts off very quiet,with a guitar,piano,and bass,then herb coming in singing,then all of a sudden--whoosh!!-the orchestra comes in full blast,and it gets quiet again,then-oh you all know the rest! it happens all over again! however ,that's noy my main focal point. a few years later,i was listening to an easy listening station,and blood,sweat and tears' version of the same song came on! i was wondering:whose version came out first:herb's or b,s,&t's? the song was written byn harry nillson,so i was wodering if herb commissioned nillson to write the song. as i understand it,herb was going thru a divorce from his first wife,and may have wanted to have a song that expressed his feelings at that time.or did b,s,&t's version come out first,and herb heard and said'that's it!that's the song i was looking for!'i really would like to know! while the song is not this guy's in love with you,i(another favorite of mine),herb(in my opinion)successfully captured the sadness of the breakup of a relationship(he was going thru it at the time!)better than any singer i've heard,with the exception of marvin gaye and sinatra.anyway,that's my question!