Looking at this thread all these years later for some inspiration on an upcoming project, I just recently saw a couple of interviews. Tommy and especially JY still carry that grudge to this day! As for DeYoung? He says his bags are packed and he's ready to hit the road with them, if he'd only get the call; he says he'd like to go out one more time on a tour as a thank-you for the fans who supported the group for all these years, and then he'd let them go on.My wish that they'd all grow up and get over it will likely never play out. I know DeYoung has stated recently in an interview that he would not mind the opportunity to do it again, but you can read in other interviews how JY and Shaw have it out for him and it appears to be something not even remotely negotiable.
With so many other bands having reconciled years or decades after a breakup, the fact that Tommy and particularly JY are still harboring that hatred just makes them look childish and petty. I don't know how Chuck's health is holding out, but even a limited number of gigs with the four remaining members would be something to witness.